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Essays, Poetry, and Illustrations
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(The anti-oppression posts from Bmoreincremental.com migrated here in March 2023. Please use the categories to find what you're looking for.)


On the Other Side of Freedom (review and reflection)
I heard DeRay McKesson at the Anti-Racism Book Festival in 2019 . McKesson radiates the kind of charisma that comes when one is fully comfortable in their own skin. He was charming and witty and passionate and committed. I knew his name from his work as a part of the Movement for Black Lives, and as a one-time candidate for Mayor of Baltimore, but that brief session in Washington DC last year was the first time I’d heard him speak. His gift with language and metaphor was cle
Tracie Guy-Decker
Jun 21, 20207 min read


My sermon this week
I am not a rabbi. This fact should not surprise anyone. If I were a rabbi, my sermon this week might sound something like this: His name was George Floyd. The whole world has watched the cruel treatment Mr. Floyd received at the hands of men who wore a uniform issued by a city government. The world watched, and we were horrified, outraged, saddened, terrified, sickened. (The exact emotional response changes depending on the person reacting and the moment.) Protests in respons
Tracie Guy-Decker
Jun 3, 20203 min read


There's no such thing as "not racist"
Image Source: Safehouse Progressive Alliance for Nonviolence (2005). Adapted: Ellen Tuzzolo (2016); Mary Julia Cooksey Cordero (@jewelspewels) (2019); The Conscious Kid (2020) This is an essay that has been forming in my brain over the past several weeks. It started with the revelations of Ahmaud Arbery’s murder and then the heartbreaking case of Breonna Taylor. Then came Amy Cooper’s weaponization of her whiteness against Christian Cooper in Central Park, followed closely by
Tracie Guy-Decker
May 31, 20205 min read


In the Shadows of Statues
In May of 2019, I attended the annual meeting of the American Alliance of Museums in New Orleans. One of the keynote speakers was Mitch Landrieu, the city’s mayor. To be honest, I don’t remember much of what he spoke about, but I must have been impressed, because I bought his book, In the Shadows of Statues: A White Southerner Confronts History . I finally got around to reading it. The book is part memoir, part manifesto. Landrieu’s purposes is supposedly to recount the exp
Tracie Guy-Decker
Apr 19, 20206 min read


Representation Matters: What D. Watkins helped me understand about museums
Though the homepage of this blog only lists a single title under the “Reading Now” heading, in reality, I am often working my way through more than one book at a time. Especially right now in the midst of quarantine, I have been turning to the page as my way out of the house. While I was reading D. Watkins’ We Speak for Ourselves: A Word from Forgotten Black America , I have also been making my way through Identity and the Museum Visitor Experience by John H Falk. As often
Tracie Guy-Decker
Apr 7, 20207 min read


The Price of Whiteness (Review)
About 2 years ago, I took a course from the curriculum of the Florence Melton School entitled “Jews in America: Insiders and Outsiders.” I was excited to take the course to deepen my understanding of Jews as “insiders and outsiders,” a notion that had strongly emerged during my work on the future core exhibit of the JMM . Unfortunately, I was underwhelmed by the course. The shortcomings are best illustrated by a disagreement I had with the instructor about Al Jolson. This “te
Tracie Guy-Decker
Mar 23, 20205 min read


The Lines Between Us by Lawrence Lanahan
I decided to read The Lines Between Us after I heard Lawrence Lanahan talk about his research on housing policy in Baltimore at Chizuk Amuno Congregation. Several years ago, I read Not in My Neighborhood by Antero Pietilo, which Lanahan identifies as a precursor to his book. In the past year, I read the Color of Law , by Richard Rothstein. All three of these books work together to provide a powerful picture of de jure , i.e. intentional, and enforced by government, segregat
Tracie Guy-Decker
Mar 1, 20204 min read


White/Black Jewish Relations
Last week, I was lucky enough to attend a talk entitled “Jewish Community, Race, and Who Counts” by Ilana Kaufman, Executive Director of the Jews of Color Field Building Initiative . Kaufman convincingly led her audience through an exploration of some of the obstacles, indignities, and microagressions facing Jews of color like herself. She wove together stories from her own history, statistics (20% of families identifying as Jewish in America are multi-racial), Torah, and oth
Tracie Guy-Decker
Feb 5, 20205 min read


(Re)committing To Antiracism As a Practice
In January 2019, I resolved to work out more. Not because I wanted to lose weight or to train for an event, but because I feel better--physically and emotionally--when I am exercising regularly. I decided to aim for 3 or 4 times a week, but I committed to never skipping a week. Because it is the 21st century, I enlisted an app to assist me. Fast forward to today, January 2020, and I am proud to say that I am on a 54 week streak of exercise. (The image is my app's confirmation
Tracie Guy-Decker
Jan 28, 20202 min read


Civic Engagement Campaign
A fellow congregant and leader at BHC and I are trying to launch a Civic Engagement Campaign. The two of us want to see a better, more equitable society in which everyone's voice is heard. We think others want that, too, and so we thought this would be an opportunity to not only engage in some good old fashioned voter registration, voter education and get-out-the-vote activities, it would also be a chance to create or nurture relationships between individuals and institutions
Tracie
Jul 25, 20182 min read


Making life sufferable
The reading discussion group is on a hiatus. In the interim a few thoughts from me. In my first year of graduate school, one of the required readings in my religious studies core class was a book by anthropologist Clifford Geertz. I don’t remember much about what I learned in that class (it was about 18 years ago, after all), but one concept of Geertz’s really stuck with me. Geertz observes that the goal of religion in the realm of suffering is not to reduce suffering, but t
Tracie
Jun 21, 20183 min read


Racism, Denial and Shame
Professor Ibram X. Kendi really opened my thinking about racism and my own antiracism with his impressive, thorough and National-Book-Award-winning book Stamped from the Beginning: The Definitive History of Racist Ideas in America. (If you haven’t read it yet, you should. It’s long, and it’s worth every minute.) Ever since I read the book last year, I’ve been following Dr. Kendi’s writing. He is a prolific thinker and an active commentator. When I saw that he wrote an op-
Tracie
Apr 20, 20185 min read


The Talmud and White Fragility
I first read How Studying Talmud Helped Me Understand Racism in America at a legislative kick-off for Jews United for Justice in January. On initial reading I felt it was just a new way to say ideas I was already familiar with, namely intention does not equal impact. But the more I processed this essay, the more I realized Avi Killip is actually saying something more nuanced. Killip overlays categories of injury from the Talmud onto racism. These categories were articulated
Tracie
Mar 19, 20184 min read


Stop Mass Incarceration in Baltimore: A CALL TO ACTION
The Maryland General Assembly is interesting three pieces of "emergency legislation" in response to the disturbing crime statistics in Baltimore. Unfortunately, instead of addressing the root causes of the violence, and providing funding and resources for violence interruption (like SafeStreets Baltimore or Baltimore Ceasefire ) or fixing the broken school funding situation or providing more opportunities for our young people, this legislation seeks to put more people behin
Tracie
Jan 28, 20182 min read


Poetry wrap up
For the December reading selection at BHC, I decided to focus on a few poems rather than a single article. I’ve been procrastinating writing this wrap-up because I haven’t written about poetry since my first year of college—more than twenty years ago. In short, bear with me as I walk you through these titles. The 6 poems selected ended up falling neatly into three pairs. I wish I could tell you I planned it that way from the beginning, but the truth is I got lucky. I select
Tracie
Dec 18, 20177 min read


Waiting for a Perfect Protest?
On September 1st of this year, the New York Times published an op-Ed signed by four Christian clergy. " Waiting for a Perfect Protest? " Is a modern-day reprise of Martin Luther King Jr's " Letter From Birmingham Jail. " In King's "Letter," King calls out the hypocrisy of his fellow clergy--those who criticized King's work for being 'unwise and untimely,' In it, King notes "you deplore the demonstrations that are presently taking place in Birmingham. But I am sorry that your
Tracie
Nov 22, 20173 min read


Readings for December 5: Poetry Selection
Over the past several weeks, more than one of my regular discussion participants has suggested we read poetry together. Intrigued by the idea, I have selected six poems for your consideration for our December reading discussion group at BHC. Some of these are very recent, some not so new. Please find the selections below, in no particular order: • Let America Be America Again by Langston Hughes • Still I Rise by Maya Angelou • from Citizen, VI [On the train the woman sta
Tracie
Nov 21, 20171 min read


Skin in the Game: How Antisemitism Animates White Nationalism
Skin in the Game: How Antisemitism Animates White Nationalism by Eric K. Ward published in the Summer 2017 issue of Public Eye magazine. Over the past year, as antisemitic speech and acts grew in frequency and viciousness, I found myself in an uncomfortable position. As a committed Jew endeavoring to be an equally committed antiracist, I found myself struggling to hold both the reality of White privilege and the reality of antisemitism at the same time. I am fully and comp
Tracie
Sep 22, 20176 min read


Why I’m glad I watched the dash cam video, and you should, too
I am really affected by scenes of violence. I can’t watch fictional depictions of violent acts. I get too upset. It stays with me for days and weeks, surfacing at inopportune times. And so, I naturally have tended to avoid watching viral videos of people being killed. I didn’t watch the Walter Scott video (the man who was shot while running away from officers back in April 2015). I chose my comfort when confronted with these digital witnesses. Always. In the past few days, t
Tracie
Jun 23, 20174 min read


The Racism of Good Intentions
When I visited NMAAHC (see here for a little about the visit), I took some time to shop the gift store. Browsing the offerings, one (giant) book caught my eye. More than 500 pages long, an impressively thick volume, Stamped from the Beginning by Ibram X. Kendi, bears a subtitle that is hard to resist for me: “The Definitive History of Racist Ideas in America.” It also bears the seal of a National Book Award Winner. And so, intimidated by the length but intrigued by the titl
Tracie
Jun 19, 20176 min read

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